First
of all, let's talk about why a Montessori home is a good idea. As Montessori
has a famous quote "Help me to do it myself" and I believe this is
the most important job as a parent that we have. Enabling a child to become
independent and to do things for themselves is helping them grow as people and
learn about their strengths, abilities and limits. The trouble is, these days
we are all so busy, it's often easier just to do to for the toddler, and so the
toddler doesn't learn and a few years down the line the toddler has grown into
a child that expects their parents to do everything for Montessori, because
that is the only way they know. So let's look at the pros and cons of ToddlerMontessori
PROS
• Setting up your home in a Montessori
Inspired way will mean...
• The toddler can do more for
themselves in Montessori
• They learn to take things out and put
things away by themselves
• The child learns to be more self
reliant and will happily push themselves further
• It gives you more time because you are
not endlessly picking up everyone else's crap!
• There is less stress and fighting in
the family, less nagging and bickering
CONS
• If your children are older it will
take some time to 're-train' them for Montessori
• If you are starting now with a toddler,
you will need to allow more time for doing even simple things like putting on
shoes.
• You will need to take some time,
re-thinking the set up in your home Montessori for toddlers
As
you can see, the pros very much outweigh the cons. So how do you start?
1. A Home for Everything
This
sounds so obvious but I know from working with my clients that when they take a
real long look at how their home is currently set up, their home for everything
doesn't really exist. You need to make sure that everything really does have its
own place and that everyone in the family knows where everything lives.
2. Take a Child's Eye View
Often
parents get annoyed at the kids for not putting things away but the reality is
that it is difficult so the child takes the easy route and leaves the toys
strewn on the floor!
3. Make It about Them
Kids
are little and so for them to be able to do what they need to do, they need to
reach! Work your way through the house checking that your child can reach
everything.
4. Less Is More
Too
many books on the bookshelf make it difficult to take off and replace the
books, instead of jamming all the books they own on the shelf, rotate the
books, every couple of weeks switch out the old ones for some new ones to make
it easy for toddler.
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